Just before you say “I Do”

As beautiful as love is darling sisters, it’s not enough to make a marriage last if other factors are not clearly defined.

When a man comes to propose to you, as a woman myself; I have learnt from my experience and that of others that instead of just going ahead with the marriage because you are certain of his love for you, you should only follow through when you know what his assignment in life is, where he is going and what he wants to do with his life.

Now don’t come for my neck brothers, this is one fact that a lot of us forget. Before you embark on the journey of marriage as a man, it’s essential you have an idea of what you want to make out of your life. Before God gave Adam the gift of Eve, he gave him work. This means Adam had an idea of what he was doing with his life and this became clearer for Eve to be a helper to him since his purpose was already defined.

A lot of issues in marriages today springs from undefined direction. So before you say “I DO” to that man, make sure you know where the man is going and your role in bringing that to pass. You don’t want to be getting married to someone who does not have a clear vision of what he wants for his life.

So before you get carried away with all the emotions, also make sure this is in place. If you go on the journey of life with someone who doesn’t know where he is going, you both might likely fall into a ditch. You should not be entering into a vehicle without a stated destination.

Only God knows what the future holds, but it’s very important to have purpose as a man or an assignment so you can know what to commit to God to perfect.


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